Movies to watch with your girlfriend — or your wife
Good movies to watch with your girlfriend or wife suit the mood you're both in, such as Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, About Time, Arrival and Gone Girl. Below are sixteen picks grouped by mood, from a proper love story to a thriller. Every pick works for married couples too, and each film can go onto a shared watchlist.
You both want something to talk about after
Conversation-starter films keep going once the credits roll — and give you something to disagree on.
Gone Girl (2014)
Gone Girl is twisty, nasty and impossible to stop discussing. You'll each pick a side.
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Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is a breakup film that's secretly a stay-together film. Beautiful and strange.
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Marriage Story (2019)
Marriage Story is heavy but brilliant. The kind of film that starts a real conversation.
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Arrival (2016)
Arrival is a sci-fi that lands as a love story. The ending rewrites everything before it.
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A proper love story
Proper romance films are for nights when you both want the real thing — no irony required.
The Notebook (2004)
The Notebook is the classic for a reason. Keep tissues somewhere neither of you admits to.
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About Time (2013)
About Time is a time-travel romance that's really about appreciating an ordinary Tuesday.
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Notting Hill (1999)
Notting Hill is warm, funny and endlessly rewatchable. A comfort pick that never fails.
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10 Things I Hate About You (1999)
10 Things I Hate About You is sharp, quotable and sweeter than it pretends to be. A perfect throwback.
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Easy nights when you're both tired
Easy comfort films are low effort, high payoff — for a Tuesday when neither of you can decide.
Crazy Rich Asians (2018)
Crazy Rich Asians is glossy, funny and romantic all at once. Pure feel-good spectacle.
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Mamma Mia! (2008)
Mamma Mia! is impossible to watch in a bad mood. Singing along is half the point.
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Legally Blonde (2001)
Legally Blonde, twenty years on, is still the best pick-me-up on this list.
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How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days (2003)
How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days is peak early-2000s rom-com. Silly in exactly the right way.
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Thills that pull you to the same cushion
Thrillers for couples are tension done well — the excuse to sit closer is built in.
A Quiet Place (2018)
A Quiet Place is the film where you'll both go quiet without noticing. Crisps are banned for the night.
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Knives Out (2019)
Knives Out is a whodunnit you can solve together — or argue about until the reveal.
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The Sixth Sense (1999)
If one of you hasn't seen The Sixth Sense, watching their face at the ending is the whole film.
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Shutter Island (2010)
Shutter Island is atmospheric and unsettling, with an ending you'll rewind at least once.
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How to stop the “what do you want to watch?” loop
The list is the easy part. Here's what actually ends the scrolling:
Take turns instead of negotiating
The twenty-minute debate over what to watch ends the moment the pick is simply somebody's turn. Our Cinema rotates the pick between the two of you automatically.
Keep one list you both add to
Films mentioned in passing are gone by Friday. A shared watchlist keeps every suggestion in one place, whoever thought of it.
Rate it separately, reveal together
After the film, you each give it stars and write a note. Neither of you sees the other's until you've both filed — so no one's opinion nudges the other.
Play a yes-or-no round when you're stuck
To break a deadlock, you each go through the queue alone, saying yes or no. Anything you both said yes to jumps to the top of the list.
One watchlist for the two of you
Our Cinema gives you both one shared watchlist, turns that rotate, star ratings you each file privately, and a record of every night you've had. Free to start.
Sources
- The Movie Database (TMDB) — Titles, release years, posters and cast data for every pick on this page.
- JustWatch — Check where each title is currently streaming, renting or buying in your country.
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